My Views On My Contributions

15+ years in open source and can’t recall a time I’ve ever felt “pressured” to contribute for free to WordPress, it’s community or any other. My primary responsibility has been (still is) to provide for myself and family, and I feel I know how to balance the two.

That’s not to say I haven’t been encouraged, nor have I ever done so. I have been with WordCamp Miami for 12+ years! 😄 But even with the volunteer work I did for WordCamp Miami, it wasn’t “free labor” to me – I saw the indirect potential benefit going into it, and it’s paid off for me in droves financially. Was that a risk or a gamble of my time? Yes. But unless you get paid when you network, you likely do the same just in another way.

Freely giving back is part of the DNA of open source – but free isn’t the only way. Nobody should feel pressured or pressured. For me I know my priorities & boundaries. If what I do fits into an intuitive (say like Five for the Future) great. If it doesn’t – alright then.

Don’t Forget Those Who Cannot Contribute

Some will say that I’ve been privileged to give my time freely, to be able to have some sort of voice (although for me I don’t think I’ve raised that voice that often) by being involved. It’s not impossible to think that I got a privilege or a job offering because of my contributions – because I had the time to do so – versus someone who can’t afford to offer such a time (family, financial problems, etc.)

So respect to those who can devote time to Open Source contributions and contributions in general (again, like volunteering for a WordCamp). I don’t have a problem giving these people credit, especially since the right amount of credit (say, a badge, similar to how Girl Scouts I assume, earn theirs) inspires new people to think of contributing.

But those who CAN should also consider there are many that CAN’T.

If you are networking remember those people who aren’t present… and if the right time comes up in a conversation remember to mention or even refer them. If you’re involved in making decisions about a product or (in general) having discussions about WordPress, remember those opinions that might differ a little from yours and perhaps present or offer alternative viewpoints, especially if those people aren’t present in those discussions. Running a regular meetup or event? Survey the group via email to see what might be some good alternate times or days so you can have a more diverse group show up. Some people can only participate for an hour or two after the kids are in bed… or during the day.

There are other ways to not forget ones who cannot contribute but still want to have a voice. Everyone is welcome at the “table of WordPress” but that implies one has to make time to be at the table, and that isn’t always possible. Make it easier for people to get to the table but try your best to represent those who just can’t make it.

I never felt pressured to give my time to WordPress, mainly because it was my time to dictate how to give it. Some don’t have that luxury or that time at all. Keep an eye out for how to use your time so that you are happy with your “return on investment” – especially if that means helping represent others or giving others an easier path to be at the table.

If there’s any pressure to become involved in WordPress, it comes from this need to be heard. Outside of this if an individual can’t contribute time to WordPress but still uses WordPress then no need to feel guilty or pressured. Now if you’re a company profiting off of WordPress? I think giving back would be worth it (something to write about in the future).

Animated GIFs From WordCamp Europe 2022

Weight Loss Update 2: Electric Boogaloo

I won’t bother explaining the reference in the title but if you want to be brought up to speed: I lost 110+ pounds in about a year (2018-2019). I last updated my situation in August/September 2019, and two years later into a pandemic I wanted to live up to the promise of writing each year about this journey.

I have kept the weight off, improved my blood pressure, and kept my blood sugar at bay (high normal or in warning territory most days) Writing yearly updates helps me hold myself accountable and perhaps it can bring something positive by anyone else reading this. If you have any questions you can find me on Twitter.

Less Strict, But Still Careful

What I Changed:

  • I stopped going Keto officially since I didn’t need to lose that much weight anymore. However I am still avoiding all sugars and keeping a low-carb livestyle (if i say it like that makes it sound like i’m an influencer on Instagram). I still miss bananas (too much natural fruit). I still avoid soda for the most part. I miss nothing of note.
  • I haven’t changed much what I eat – a salad almost every weekday. I do “meatless Mondays” now just to give my body a break from the increased fat and cholesterol I usually have over the weekend. Almond shakes and Lily’s chocolate chips (in cookies or straight out of the bag) are my fav deserts. Still do most of the cooking/baking from the home. Chipotle is my fav place otherwise.
  • I do a low-level fast – I basically eat within a 2-3 hour window every day. I drink / sipping coffee starting around noon (coldbrew no-sugar with about 15 calories per serving, with some water). Coffee is a hunger suppressant and the tactic of eating within a window helps lower how much I can stuff into my body. On the weekends I tend to start eating a little earlier to treat/reward myself but end up eating about the same amount of food regardless.
  • I increased my exercise – I still get up and walk/run early in the morning. I used to do 10k steps in my last update in 2019. My minimum per day is 12k however I haven’t been that low in over a year. In the past few months I’ve been doing 24k+ steps (and recently passed a record 34k steps). I walk around the house on calls sometimes and walk around the block after I drop off my kids from school. Apple Watch gifted to me late 2019 has been a big help in tracking. I have an active calorie goal now – not steps – but my a typical day sees me walk or running 10 miles or more.
  • Slowing down – I can’t keep getting up 2 hours before my kids’ school starts and running outside, so i’m thinking about a standalone bike to reduce the pressure put on myself (and my legs). What i’m doing now isn’t sustainable and I think i’ve arrived at a place where my health improvements won’t get that much better, so I will ramp down the calories/miles I do per day.
  • My wife wants me to lift weights. I’ve been fighting this. I guess next year we’ll see.

Animated GIFs From WordCamp US 2019

“Whats In My Bag” WordCamp US 2019 Edition

Sit down and get comfortable. This might take a while. Below is a photo of 90% of what i usually take to WordCamps. Doesn’t include literally everything (for one, the iPhone i’m taking the picture with isn’t in the picture). But this is as close as I think i’m going to get it.

Items:

Also:

  • Extra t-shirt
  • Various WordCamp Miami (and other camp) swag (stickers, pens, pins)
  • Electric Shaver, Emergency Personal Supplies
  • Gluestick
  • Advil or something for headaches
  • Bottle of water